Bridging Borders: Making Friends While Studying Abroad

One of the most exciting and life-altering experiences a student can have is studying abroad. Beyond discovering a totally new part of the world, you are also able to fully immerse yourself in a new culture and gain a worldwide insight into your studies. While the idea sounds appealing, the reality often entails a challenge that many students do not talk about enough: starting over in terms of socializing.

You're in an unfamiliar location, far away from your friends and loved ones, and suddenly you need to learn how to befriend new people and, more crucially, form lasting relationships. But, the silver lining? You're not alone. Making friends while studying abroad can be one of the most rewarding parts of your experience if you go about it the right way. A lot of students are in the same boat.

This blog will help you create an energetic and supportive social life while studying abroad along with mingling with new individuals. 

Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone  

For your first few weeks studying abroad, you might find yourself calling home, staying in your room when class is over, or sticking to your old routine. This is to be expected, yet it's important to remember that people are most open to meeting others early on. The sooner you step out of your comfort zone, the more it will become second nature to develop relationships, whether it's greeting the person sitting next to you in your class, striking up a conversation in the cafeteria, or joining someone for an invitation to an event.

For instance, if your university is having a welcome fair, visit as many booths as possible, including those that are not related to your core interest. You may encounter people whom you would not have encountered otherwise and discover new hobbies. 

Tip: In your initial month, challenge yourself to meet at least one new person per week. This prevents you from getting lonely too early and gaining momentum. 

Get Involved in Campus Events, Societies, and Clubs

Getting involved in student organisations or groups is one of the ideal ways to make new friends. You already share something with the members of these organisations because they were established on shared interests. Are you sporty? Join an intramural team. Do you like music? Check out the college band or choir. Interest in social justice? Join a volunteer group. 

In addition to making new friends, there'll also be regular opportunities to hang out together, which will foster relationships. For example, most students who engage in academic clubs form close friendships that last even after graduation. A monthly book club or football game night becomes a bonding site and is a great way to socialize while studying abroad.

Tip: Attempt something new. It's a fun way to challenge yourself and meet other like-minded individuals.

Establish Contact with Other Foreign Students

Since they know how hard it can be to adapt to a new environment, foreign students who are also studying abroad are often more open to making quick friends. They might also be eager to attend local performances, visit new restaurants, and venture out into the city. Most colleges have offices for international students or they organize events on a regular basis specifically for them. You can find a group that "understands" your experience by attending these. Students may want to take a vacation together or visit cultural events; these are things more enjoyable when done in groups.

Tip: Join online forums for international students in your university, like Facebook, Discord, or WhatsApp. It's an easy way to stay aware of social activities and organize last-minute preparations.

Use Social Media to Connect

It's not all about meeting people in person anymore when it comes to making friends. You can find people who like what you like using social media platforms such as Meetup, Bumble BFF, and even Instagram. There are certain websites or groups in various cities for beginners who wish to meet people. For example, you could find a Meetup photography group that organizes weekend photo walks, and that would provide an opportunity to meet like-minded individuals and hone your craft. 

Tip: Be sure to meet in a public place and let a friend know where you're going and with whom before meeting up with someone you've met on the app or group. Safety should be your first priority.

Build Friendships Through Everyday Interactions

It only takes the smallest of day-to-day interactions to become the seed of a friendship, which formal gatherings are not always. Same classmate you sit next to every week? As class ends, ask if they want to grab coffee. Somebody you bump into at the same bus stop all the time? Strike up a conversation. For example, most long-term friendships start out with accidental encounters in dorm kitchens, library study tables, or even supermarket checkout aisles.

Tip: People tend to remember those who take the time to remember their names, make eye contact, and smile. These little things make people feel valued and more likely to connect.

Organise and Initiate Plans

One of the most important tips to make friends while studying abroad is to make plans yourself instead of expecting someone else to invite you. Organize a movie evening, host a simple dinner, or go on a weekend trip to a nearby city. Being the initiator of plans shows enthusiasm and makes it more likely others will do the same in the future. For example, you can host a "food from home" evening where all the students bring a dish from their country if your university is multicultural. It's a great way to bond and learn about each other's histories.

Tip: Ensure that events are casual and inclusive so that no one feels pressured to appear a certain way or to spend too much money.

Embrace Cultural Differences

You will certainly encounter different social norms while studying abroad. In communication, some cultures are more direct while others are less talkative. You would be able to have more substantial and authentic relationships if you can adapt and honor these differences. For example, although being late is normal and not personal in certain countries, it is rude in others. Knowing these small cultural differences avoids misunderstandings. 

Tip: Don't assume. Simply ask if you are unsure about a custom. Most people will appreciate your honesty and curiosity.

Lastly, Take Your Time

Remember that building a social life takes time especially while studying abroad in a place you’ve never been before. Sometimes you'll feel alone and you won't necessarily find your "people" right away. That is very normal. Keep being responsible, showing up, and open to new things. For example, many students say that their very best friends didn't become their friends until the second semester, so don't lose heart if nothing happens quickly at first.

In conclusion, studying abroad promotes academic growth as well as personal growth. You will be influenced for the rest of your life by the individuals you interact with, cultural exchanges you experience, and experiences you create. You can create a rich and fulfilling social life that will make your overseas experience unforgettable by challenging yourself, being proactive, and having an open mind.

Take the leap, say yes, and take every opportunity to get to know people because friendships formed at this stage of life often become some of your closest ones. 

If you are ready to turn your study abroad aspirations into reality, let TFM Overseas Education Consultants be your trusted partner on this journey. From choosing the right course and university to navigating applications, securing scholarships, acing visa interviews, and preparing for life overseas. We are here to support you every step of the way. With expert guidance, personalised counselling, and insider knowledge of the global education landscape. Book your free session today. 

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

1. How much time does it typically take to establish a social network overseas?

   
   

   Ans: This differs for each individual. While some students identify their tight group within the first week, others need many months to do so. Consistency is crucial; continue attending events and remaining receptive to new relationships.

2. What if I'm introverted or shy?

   
   

   Ans: Great friendships are still possible! Instead of throwing big parties, concentrate on smaller events like study groups, hobby clubs, or one-on-one meetings. Meeting like-minded people at your own speed can also be facilitated by online groups and interest-based activities.

3. How can I interact with students from different countries as well as locals?

   
   

   Ans: Join language exchange programs, volunteer in the community, and attend campus events that are open to all. Participating in locals' favourite pastimes, such as sports leagues or cultural classes, will facilitate a natural connection.

4. What if I experience loneliness or homesickness while studying abroad?

   
   

   Ans: It's normal to feel homesick, especially during the first few weeks. Make time to interact with your new environment while maintaining relationships with loved ones back home. Loneliness can be reduced by talking to other students, joining clubs, and touring the city.